A Closed-Off Clitoris
She has masturbated since she was eleven with a shower jet. She began masturbating using her fingers at age sixteen. She has only ever had an orgasm through the use of the shower jet. She wants to stop masturbating completely. What can she do?
Case #: 1524
Concern：
I know I have seen similar questions and responses but I hope that you can help me. Due to some situations I have been masturbating since I was 11-years-old through puberty. I have only had one orgasm in my life using a shower jet on my clitoris. I quit masturbating around the age of 16 with the water jet but I started using my fingers instead. I want to just stop masturbation. Can you please offer me some advice?
Discussion：
If I understand correctly, you’re looking to stop masturbating and achieve orgasms solely through the use of intercourse? That’s a lot to ask, from a woman who has achieved only one orgasm in her life. I’m going to recommend a supplement to you that will increase your sensitivity, but I’m also going to give you some techniques that will hopefully help “get you there” during intercourse.
Too Much Too Early
Regular vibrator or water jet use during your formative years can have long-term issues. As you might have gleaned from some of our other articles, the use of percussion on your clitoral tissues can cause your body to react as to an invasive presence and begin building scar tissue. Your reproductive area is barely, if even completely, formed at eleven. By forming scar tissue in such a delicate area so young, you might have almost completely removed your ability to access the clitoral nerves.
Cleanse and Mend
In order to regain some sensation, you must remove this scar tissue. This will help you two-fold. Firstly, it will give you a much higher grade of sensation, with a greater range of sensitivity. Secondly, the removal of the scar tissue will allow better sexual response, such as blood flow to the genital region.
A Sensible Solution
Better blood flow means that you will feel more things, as complete clitoral engorgement is mandatory for erotic sensation. Besides that, with unblocked capillaries, your brain can receive and send more neurotransmitters, allowing quicker response time and an improved sensual experience. Oxytocin is a hormone necessary for orgasm; with unbound arteries and veins it will be more possible for you to achieve the orgasm without masturbation that you desire.
In this instance, I recommend you begin an herbal treatment designed to restore health to your clitoris. (TRY: Herbal Formula for Passion & Sensitivity Enhancement) This remedy is specifically created to increase circulation, remove scar tissue, reduce inflammation and rejuvenate nerve endings. It also features powerful arousal compounds found in the herbs Epimedium, Maca, and Cistanche. I’m sure it will improve your clitoral sensation hugely.
Technique is Tantamount
Besides working towards increasing your sexual experience, you must also consider your technique in regards to orgasm during intercourse. Many women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation, and you might need to self-manipulate during sex to achieve orgasm, even with your heightened sensation. Besides that, investigate positions that allow for good clitoral contact. Positions where the woman is allowed to control the movement, and where she is able to rub her clitoris against something, are the best for female orgasm during sex.
Try this formula, and experiment with positions, and I’m sure you’ll be having sexual orgasms in no time!
What to do
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